OK so I admit, I am not the best at keeping a current or accurate journal. My mom gave me a journal to start this year and I did do one entry, but nothing since. I find I have more time and energy to type blog posts than I do to write in journal. So for that matter, I am going to attempt to fire the blog back up!
I guess I need to address the biggest item first. It is no secret everyone already knows but…
WE’RE PREGNANT! DUE AUGUST 1st
So the story to date:
Our original plan was to wait till the first of the year to start trying for a baby. We then thought well why wait, it could take us a while to get pregnant anyway. So I went off the magic baby repellent in the end of October. We decided whatever happens, happens. Poor Dale’s head was already spinning with the fertility time table.
I’m going to fast forward and then go back. Thanksgiving morning: (TMI but I’m going to tell it anyway)
I should have got my period the day before. I was thinking my body is going to be off because I went off the pill, but for shits and giggles I took a pregnancy test. I was SHOCKED to see that it came out positive! I told Dale and he was excited as well but we were both still uneasy as it was so early on. We decided we would not tell anyone yet just in case something happened or the test was a fluke. I purchased another test and we did one a few weeks later. Still positive so I guess we are for sure pregnant. At this point I decided I wanted to wait till Christmas to tell the family. I thought it would make a perfect Christmas gift.
Christmas Day: So to break the news I got everyone a t-shirt stating their new titles. Mom got “Grandma to bee” (with a little bee on it). Dad got “Great dads get promoted to Grandpa”. TJ got “World’s greatest Uncle”. Renea got “World’s coolest Aunt”. They had to open them all at the same time. Renae said “Is there something I’m missing?’ and mom just mouthed to me “Are you pregnant?” So, the cat was officially out of the bag. Mom wore her shirt to the family party with pride. She was so excited.
Now here we are 17 weeks with an onion sized baby. Everyone keeps asking “How are you feeling?” I have been pretty lucky and I know it. I did not get the morning sickness at all. I did have a few days that I was feeling a little nauseous. I generally just forced myself to eat and concentrated on my breathing. Other than that, the only side affect I am having is a rough time sleeping. We have been in for two appointments with the midwives and have heard the baby’s heartbeat. We even have a recording of it to listen to whenever. We are not going to find out the sex (which is killing my mother). I figure that will make me push harder with excitement and anticipation J.
Not a whole lot else to report at the moment. We are not doing a nursery so there is no prepping going on for that. A friend has been kind enough to give us a bassinet to use for the time being. I have knit a few things for the baby and plan to do more. We have been pretty good about not buying things as I am sure we will get slammed with things from friend s and family when the time comes. We are just taking it day by day for now.
So the rewind. As we sat back and thought about WHEN this may have happened there were only 3 days in which this could have happened. It could have been the weekend of Punkin Chunk or the day before Dale’s motorcycle accident. In looking at the timing, Punkin Chunk would have been too early. So our little one was conceived on November 10th, 1 day before Dale was going to be laid up for weeks. I think that was Gods way of saying slow down buddy you got a baby on the way. I was ever so more thankful that Dale was OK once we realized we were pregnant. I am going to try and keep this up to date with baby happenings. Stay tuned.